Jesus’
Surprising Cure For Anxiety and Worry
By Chap Bettis
Introduction:
This
morning’s message preparation is unusual. Yesterday, I was
very unmotivated to pull together the message on the last purpose
of a healthy church, Ministry. But as I was struggling with my own
lack of motivation yesterday and began praying, I realized that
the reason for the struggle was the state of my own heart. What
exactly was the state of my own heart. Why was I so weighed down?
Slowly, I began to realize that I had become overwhelmed with anxiety.
My heart was anxious.
What
was I anxious about? The state of the elections. I realize how much
is at stake for our nation and hinges on who is the next president.
My heart was anxious about my job situation. I have hooked up with
a friend but would I learn things fast enough? Am I learning the
right things to make a good living? Would my income level be at
what I was at before? Can I juggle the two jobs? My heart was anxious
about our new fellowship and different situations there. Different
aspects of my family life and parenting were in my thoughts. Proverbs
12:25 says “Anxiety in a man’s heart weighs it down.”
That was certainly the way I was feeling. Weighed down.
Do
you feel anxious or worried at times? How would you define anxiety?
What types of things make you feel anxious or have anxiety in your
heart? How is concern different than anxiety? Let’s look at
a passage this morning that addresses anxiety.
Matt
6:19-34
19
"Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth
and rust destroy, and where thieves break in and steal. 20 But store
up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where moth and rust do not
destroy, and where thieves do not break in and steal. 21 For where
your treasure is, there your heart will be also.
22
"The eye is the lamp of the body. If your eyes are good, your
whole body will be full of light. 23 But if your eyes are bad, your
whole body will be full of darkness. If then the light within you
is darkness, how great is that darkness!
24
"No one can serve two masters. Either he will hate the one
and love the other, or he will be devoted to the one and despise
the other. You cannot serve both God and Money.
25
"Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you
will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear. Is not
life more important than food, and the body more important than
clothes? 26 Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap
or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them.
Are you not much more valuable than they? 27 Who of you by worrying
can add a single hour to his life?
28
"And why do you worry about clothes? See how the lilies of
the field grow. They do not labor or spin. 29 Yet I tell you that
not even Solomon in all his splendor was dressed like one of these.
30 If that is how God clothes the grass of the field, which is here
today and tomorrow is thrown into the fire, will he not much more
clothe you, O you of little faith? 31 So do not worry, saying, 'What
shall we eat?' or 'What shall we drink?' or 'What shall we wear?'
32 For the pagans run after all these things, and your heavenly
Father knows that you need them. 33 But seek first his kingdom and
his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as
well. 34 Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will
worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.
The
Subject of This Whole Section: A Believer, His Money and His God
This
whole passage deals with a believer, his money and his God. There
are four different sections in this passage: 6:19-21, 6:22-23, 6:24,
6:25-34, In each section of this passage, there is a contrast. See
if you can pick out the contrast.
In
6:19-21 the contrast is between laying up treasure on earth and
heaven. This passage deals with a believer and where his storage
of his treasures. In 6:22-23 the contrast is a little more difficult
to understand. If you use eye as a euphemism for what your eye is
on, or your goals, it make a little more sense. Your goals illumine
your whole body. If your goals are good, then your whole body will
be full of light. This passage deals with a believer and his goals.
In 6:24 the contrast is between serving one of two masters: God
or money. Jesus explicitly says you cannot serve God and wealth.
You can serve one OR the other but not one AND the other. This passage
deals with a believer and his master: God or money.
And
then he begins to address one reason people serve money: Anxiety,
worry, fear of the future, desire for security. Notice the therefore
in v.25 In the passage that follows there are two commands and nine
reasons to overcome anxiety or worry. Scriptural commands are often
in pairs: negative first and then positive. Don’t …
but do … What is the command of don’t?
The
First Command: Stop Worrying
The
first command, stop worrying. (vv25-32,34) Jesus repeats that command
three times in this passage. V.25, 31, 34. God does not want you
to worry. Worry is not a fruit of the Spirit but a fruit of the
flesh. And if God commands us not to worry then it is possible for
us to control it. God would never give us a command we could not
obey. But notice something relieving. Jesus doesn't just leave us
there. He gives nine reasons not to be worried. See if you can pick
them out.
Nine
Reasons Not to Worry
The
first reason not to worry is that life is more than food and clothing.
V.25. Jesus said be on your guard against all kinds of greed. A
man’s life does not consist in the abundance of his possessions.
Proverbs says better a dry crust with peace and quiet than a house
full of feasting with strife. It is this time of year that we are
reminded of the story A Christmas Carol in which Scrooge has plenty
of money but an empty life and Bob Cratchet has an empty wallet
but plenty of life, love in his house. If you are anxious because
of a fear of loss of income, Jesus says to you – its just
money. Life, true life, is more than money. So if you are anxious
about money, just laugh and say, “It’s only money!”
The
second reason not to worry is that your Father will see that his
children get fed. V.26. In this verse, Jesus reminds us that our
Father feeds his birds, yet we are more important to him than the
birds. If he is our heavenly Father, then we are his earthly children.
Which is more important to the good father, the children or the
pet? Scripture says that we are so important he keeps track of how
many hairs are on our head! If the Father is going to take care
of his pets, then certainly we are more important than that, he
will take care of us. Every time we see a bird getting food it should
remind us that your Father will take care of you.
The
third reason not to worry is that worry will not change the circumstances.
V.27. Jesus asks the question rhetorically. Who of you by worrying
can add a single hour to your life? Worry by definition is thinking,
meditating on something you cannot change. Thinking about decisions
you have made. Worry is not creative thinking. It is destructive
thinking. By being anxious about the election have I changed anything?
No. By being anxious about my financial future, I have changed anything?
No.
What
does your anxiety do? It does not empty tomorrow of its sorrow,
but it does empty today of its strength. It does not make you escape
the evil; it makes you unfit to cope with it when it comes. God
gives us the power to bear all the sorrow of His making, but He
does not guarantee to give us strength to bear the burdens of our
own making such as worry induces. Ian Maclaren
Whatever
you are worrying about, you are not changing it by your worry.
The
fourth reason not to worry is that your Father will see that his
children get sheltered. V.28-30 Just as feeding of the birds proves
that you will get fed, so the clothing of the flowers proves that
you will be clothed and sheltered. Every time you see a flower bloom
it proves that God is robing his flowers and you are more important
to your Father than one of his bouquets.
The
fifth reason not to worry is that it show our lack of faith. V.30
When we are worrying we are leaving God out of the equation. We
are not trusting in his love, his control of events, his care for
us. George Mueller once said, “The beginning of anxiety is
the end of faith, and the beginning of true faith is the end of
anxiety.”
The
sixth reason not to worry is that it indicates we have become like
the pagans, running after things. V.32. Here is a way we can contrast
with the world. They want more, more, more. They are worried about
their finances. They are consumed with early retirement and the
latest fashions and bigger houses and newest cars. This is what
they are eagerly seeking (or run after). We are to be different
from them.
The
seventh reason not to worry is that your heavenly Father knows that
you need all these things. What a great promise to cling to!! First,
he is my heavenly Daddy. Secondly, he’s not far off running
the universe. He knows that I need food and clothing. In fact, now
Jesus is there interceding for me who knows these things experientially.
The
eighth reason not to worry is that your heavenly Father will give
you these things. V.33. That promise comes with a condition. That
we seek first God’s kingdom and righteousness. We will look
at that in a minute.
The
ninth reason not to worry is that tomorrow will worry about itself.
V.34 Each day has enough trouble of its own. In other words, the
way that God has designed us is to take care of today’s troubles
not worry about tomorrow. Life is rough enough today. Be faithful
today. Let tomorrow worry. An average person's anxiety is focused
on :
40%
-- things that will never happen
30% -- things about the past that can't be changed
12% -- things about criticism by others, mostly untrue
10% -- about health, which gets worse with stress
8% -- about real problems that will be faced
The
Surprising Positive Command
That
brings us to the contrasting command. In this passage, Jesus counters
the negative with a positive. What is the contrasting positive command?
A recent popular song finishes the statement, “Don’t
worry..” with “Be happy.” You might expect a positive
command like: “Trust God,” from Jesus. Instead, the
way to deal with worry in this passage is “Keep on seeking
first his kingdom and righteousness. In other words, worry reveals
you are not seeking his kingdom first. You are seeking your own
kingdom and goals first. The verb is a continuing verb. Seeking
first the kingdom is not something we do once and for all. Each
day, each moment we choose to keep on seeking God’s kingdom
first. If we do, then God has bound himself to the promise that
he will take care of your financial needs.
You
see this passage is a contrast also. Remember when we are started
out, I said that every section of this passage was about a Christian
and his money. Will you store up treasures on earth or in heaven?
Will you set your eyes on good things or bad things? Will you serve
God or money? Lastly, will you seek God’s kingdom first and
let God worry about what you need or will you seek your own kingdom
and finances first and do the worrying about your money.
This
does not have to do with the amount of money we have. The NT acknowledged
that there were both poor and wealthy followers of Jesus. Primarily
this has to do with our identity. What is going on in our hearts
and minds. Sinful worry and anxiety indicate a lack of faith, a
wrong view of God.
Does
that mean we don’t work hard? Does that mean we are consumed
with church 7 days a week? Does that mean we never start a business
or take courses that will demand lots of time? No. But it does mean
we will not be motivated by worry. It does mean we will not be fear
driven. It does mean we will not let an anxious heart weigh us down.
We will seek God’s righteousness first, knowing that he knows
what we need and he promised to supply what we need. And he will
bless those who seek his first.
The
Implication for Ministry Within the Church
So
what does this have to do with ministry? How in the world could
it possibly tie in? Matt 13:18-23. We all know the parable of the
sower. The first soil represents the heart of those who hear but
don’t understand. Those people we know. The second soil represents
the hearts of those who hears the word, receives it with joy but
eventually falls away when trouble comes. Those people we know also
having seen some come in and then fall away. But look at verse 22.
And the one on whom seed was sown among the thorns; this is the
man who hears the word, and the worry of the world and the deceitfulness
of wealth choke the word, and it become unfruitful. The word worry
is the same word in Matt 6. In other words, Christians can become
unfruitful because they are caught up in the worries of this world
and the deceitfulness of wealth. That’s why Jesus said, many
who are first (rich) will be last (poor) and many who are last (poor)
will be first (rich). What’s scary is that these people do
not fall away!! They keep coming to church!!
We
need to address anxiety in our lives, not only because of its effect
on me, so that I can live a more peaceful life. But we also need
to address anxiety and worry so that we will not become unfruitful.
How
Anxiety Attacks the Advancement of the Kingdom
Humanly
speaking, the church of Jesus is constantly dependant on two things:
the willingness of its people to give time and the willingness of
its people to give money. Anxiety over money attacks both of those.
If you are worried with money you will work more hours or take a
more demanding job to make more. As a result you will have less
time to seek God’s kingdom and his righteousness. Your and
my fruitfulness in ministry can be affected by anxiety.
Taking
time to minister to others comes at the expense of time that could
be spent on making money, giving us greater security, freeing us
from worry.
What
level of income should we have? Should wives without children work?
Should you take that course or new job? These are between you and
the Lord but don’t let anxiety and worry enter into the equation.
Questions
for further reflection:
How
would you define anxiety?
What
type things do you worry about? Get anxious about?
When
does legitimate concern move into the sin of worry?
How
is seeking first the kingdom of God a realistic cure for anxiety?
How
does worrying make you less fruitful in the kingdom?
Which
of the nine reasons not to worry speaks most to your needs?
If you have any questions, comments or observations, please call
Chapman Bettis at 401 727-2367 or John Riley at 401-453-5550 or
email at johnr@cornerstoneri.com
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